Acknowledging the Fallacy of Change

Boundaries can heal us.

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I’ve been thinking about ‘the fallacy of change’ more and more lately. This is where we expect others will change — be it their words, actions, or values — to suit our needs. But waiting for someone to engage with you differently when they’re hurtful isn’t going to allow wounds time to heal.